Philosophy of Kelly
I was waken up by a sms this morning at 3 something. The message was written "Do you believe in such thing call KARMA? Isit called as karma or revenge?" I was shocked to see such a message at such a time. Then it aleart me that I should write a blog about my philosophy between karma and revenge.
During my childhood life, most things that happenend to me will occurs to revenge. For example, if someone backstab me i’ll double backstab them in return. But now, I’ve grew and met so many different types of situations before, revenge is for someone who doesn’t know how to think logicly which I was once in my childhood life. Revenge will also lead to having karma because I believe, doing something bad to someone it will reflect back to them in future. Growing into this world, many people will think of revenge whether they are business partners, family members, friends or enemies. But to make it clear, does revenge makes you happy after doing it? It might but for a short term. After awhile you might relise what you had done had actually made someone suffer in pain or making their lifes miserable. If eveyone in this world act like that, there won’t be peace and no body could be trusted at all. If someone in future cheated on you, let it be. I believe one day, that person who cheated on you will gets his/her own karma without you doing anything. You might agree or might not with me but as said in the title, philosophy of Kelly. So its my point of view.
Whether you do good or bad, karma will come around the corner. If you treat someone good, i’m sure one day somebody will treat you good as well. But without having any expectations on what you are doing. It doesn’t mean that if you donate money to charity, a rich person will donate money to you one day. It does not mean that way. If you have a good heart, i’m sure that something will do good in your future. But if something bad happens to you even though you have done so much good things, do not blame on karma. You just got bad luck! That is what I believe in. Everything you do in life, it will reflect in future. Like what karma means, "what goes around, comes around." I believe in that.
I have friends who treated their boyfriends or ex-boyfriends like rubish. Taking every advantages they could from the people that love them. Whether its cash, shopping list, security, accompany, transportation and so on it still meant stealing! If you have a pair or hands and legs, i’m sure that anyone could move on with their life without depending on other people. Some people might cry and feel sad that why when you love that person so much and had sacrificed so much for that person, that person still leaves you? For me, its because you did not appreaciate the person once love you in the past and now when you finally love the person, they tend to ignore your appearence. BUT, if you did not do such thing in the past I believe one day, someone better will come around.
For me, I hate telling lies and I hate keeping secrets for people which leads to lies. To be honest, I won’t purposely spread your secrets but I’ll tell the truth if someone ask. Telling lies really makes no good in life. If you have a good heart, I believe lies wouldn’t be nessesary. You might think that what ever I say now, you already know or you don’t care much about it. I won’t stop you from reading my blog. You can just click the little "X" on the top right side of your screen. It wouldn’t affect me at all.
To me, if you want to do something, do it openly. If you like someone, like that person openly and not have an underground relationship. Be prove of it for doing it. I disagree with people doing things in life secretive. It will just make their life much miserable. I can say that i’ve seen people lying to their parents for many reasons. But to me, why must you lie to them? Yes, they might scold you, ground you, and stop you from doing it. Why? Why are they doing it? I believe that is not that they don’t understand you but they know more about life and whats good or bad. For now, I’ll stop here and will continue next time.
NOTE: Do not even get pissed at me or blame me for writting this blog. Cause its my philosophy so its for you to follow or just pretend you have never read this. Thank you for sharing your time.
